Wednesday 28 September 2011

Installing Bed and Bride Dowry

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Below is some photo after installing the bed and decorating the bridal room. Hehe..after installing it, the lamp is switch on and room to be locked. (We got 2 pairs of lamps being switching on, one is those red cutie lantern put on the dressing table and the others were white lantern hanging from the ceiling which my dear bought it from Ikea last few months. :p

After today, busy for  few more days, is will be our wedding day. Happy waiting...for the big day :D
Bed was installed by dear mum & dad. Behind photo decorated by dear.
Dressing wardrobe not big enough :p
Our bed top wedding photo was hang in front of our bed. Cannot be hanging above the bed as couples will always have arguement.



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Tuesday 13 September 2011

Betrothal Day aka Guo Da Li

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In Chinese Culture, a marriage is considered the joining of two families.  Thus the parents of the bride's and groom's get involved in their wedding planning from very early on.  Two families pick an auspicious date as the Betrothal Day. 過大禮 This is a formal meeting between the parents of the perspective bride and groom. 

The groom's family presents various proposal gifts that represents fertility and prosperity in Chinese culture, which is also known as "Grand Gift" or "Guo Da Li".  All gifts should come in even numbers, meaning "good things double" in Chinese culture.  Thus, the two are considered officially engaged. 
  
Chinese Wedding Cakes aka Li Bing
After the betrothal  meeting, both families will make wedding announcement to their relatives and friends by sending out  wedding biscuits "Double Happiness" along with wedding invitations. These are baked with fillings made of lotus seed paste, red bean paste or green bean paste.  
The wedding cakes are usually presented to the bride's family by the groom's family as part of the proposal gift. Bride's family will then present some of the cakes to worship their ancestors and send the rest of cakes to friends and relatives along with wedding invitations. Quantity of cakes to be sent depends on seniority of guest or relationship with the family. 


Today, 13th September 2011, bright sunny day. :)  our betrothal day(过大礼).


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